I can’t tell you how many times that I’ve had this conversation as a parent with my children. Sometimes it has been about examples that are in front of my children as teachers or leaders. . .sometimes it’s about me. I tell them as we’re reflecting on the situation and can find very little positive that happened: “I’m sorry but you’re going to have to learn from the negative on this one. You’re going to have to see what not to do and learn to do the right thing.”
